Congratulations and Thank You to the BRHS Class of 2009

Dr. Riccobono told the seniors at their graduation practice Thursday morning that the ceremony wasn't really for them--it was for their parents. He was trying to impress upon them that pranks and jokes during the program would be a disservice to attending loved ones, but he had said the same thing to me earlier when I thanked him for making it possible for Neil to be involved. I wasn't sure how much he would be getting out of the event, but I knew that Scott and I would be touched, as we already were by the support Neil was being given throughout the graduation practice proceedings.

Neil had been showing some signs

of unusual (for him) anticipation about his big day. A few times already he had volunteered that he couldn't believe he was graduating--just the kind of comment any 18-year old would make as he approached this mile stone. I was feeling hopeful that amidst all the confusion of black robes and processionals, Neil would actually be moved by the significance of this day.

Nothing could have prepared him or me for what actually happened last night. As we sat through the rapid readings of the 691 names, I tried to decide if I should shout or cheer as Neil's name came up. What if I were sitting near the family of the next graduate in line and they couldn't hear their own child's name because I was making such a to-do? I decided a quick clap and woohoo wouldn't hurt if I started at the same time his name was read. My heart beating in anticipation, I no sooner began my tiny hoopla when the gymnasium erupted. Every student on the floor stood up simultaneously and cheered for Neil. Even the audience in the bleachers began to stand. Names were halted for nearly thirty seconds (an eternity for me) as his ovation was given.

I don't know that I have ever been so moved by an event. The outpouring of love and support for our son amazes me even now as I sit here typing and remembering that moment. Apparently students had preplanned this, but I was not aware of it. Dr. Riccobono, who was helping Neil maneuver back to his seat, stopped him and pointed out the amazing spectacle. A huge, incredulous grin lit up Neil's face as he turned to see the crowd. As soon as he got back to his seat, he pulled out his phone to ask me why his classmates had done that. Before my slow fingers could text back, a friend had already answered him. "Because you're awesome," is what he said. I had to agree.

Thank you again, to any and all who participated in Neil's recognition. Thanks to all the school personnel who assisted Neil on his special night. Thanks too, to friends and classmates who stepped in when needed. I have not seen that young man smile that much since January. I know we haven't felt this good for a long, long time.

P.S. If anyone happens to have a copy of a video of Neil's special moment, we'd love to see it. We were caught unprepared that night!

Update:  Here's a link to a video.